Izwa inqwaba yamaqabunga amathenda, engeza ukuthinta indawo yemvelo impilo yakho yonke

Iqembu ngalinye lamathenda okwenziwaamahlamvuiklanywe ngokucophelela futhi yaklanywa. Kusukela ekubunjweni, umbala kanye nokuthungwa kwamaqabunga, silwela ukubuyisela isimo sangempela. Ukusebenzisa izinto zokulingisa ezisezingeni eliphezulu, lawa mahlamvu amancane awagcini nje ngokuba nokuthinta kwangempela, kodwa futhi angagcina imibala egqamile namafomu acacile isikhathi eside. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ibekwe ekhaya noma ehhovisi, ingangeza ukuthinta kombala wemvelo esikhaleni.
Ubuhle bayo abukho nje kuphela esimweni sangaphandle nombala, kodwa futhi nokuthula nokuthula okudlulisela. Noma nini lapho sisemsebenzini noma empilweni ematasa, bheka nje inyanda yamaqabunga asemancane ingaduduza izinhliziyo zethu ngokushesha, masizwe ububele nokubekezelelana kwemvelo.
Okubaluleke nakakhulu, umqondo oluhlaza wokuvikelwa kwemvelo odluliswa amaqabunga amathenda okulingisa uhambisana nezidingo zezikhathi zethu. Ngenkathi siphishekela impilo engcono, kufanele futhi sinake ukubaluleka kokuvikelwa kwemvelo. Njengomkhiqizo wokuhlobisa ikhaya onobungani bemvelo, amaqabunga okulingisa awakwazi nje ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zethu zobuhle, kodwa futhi anciphise ukucekelwa phansi nokumosha imithombo yemvelo.
Kungaba futhi indlela yethu yokuveza imizwa yethu nokukhathalela kwethu. Uma sithumela inqwaba yamaqabunga amathenda okwenziwa ezihlotsheni nakubangane, akusona nje isipho, kodwa futhi inhliziyo nesibusiso. Imele ukunakekela kwethu nothando lwethu ngabo, kodwa futhi imele ukuphishekela kwethu okufanayo ukuphila okungcono.
Ngaphezu kwezinzuzo ezingenhla kanye nokusetshenziswa, kunezindawo eziningi okufanele zihlolwe ekulingiseni inqwaba yamaqabunga amathenda. Isibonelo, ukukhethwa kwayo kwezinto ezibonakalayo, isitayela sokuklama, ukufanisa umbala nezinye izici kungenziwa ngokwezifiso futhi kulungiswe ngokuvumelana nezidingo ezahlukene kanye nezintandokazi. Ngale ndlela, ayikwazi kuphela ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zobuhle zabantu abahlukene, kodwa futhi ibonise ubuntu obuyingqayizivele nokunambitheka.