Kule xesha lothando, ngaba nawe ufuna indlela ekhethekileyo neyobubele yokuvuma? Makhe ndikuse kwihlabathi elifana nephupha - iqamza elizele ziinkwenkwezi, elingengoluhlu lweentyatyambo kuphela, kodwa elikwafihliweyo kwiintyatyambo zovakalelo olunzulu nothando.
Ibhola yefoam ekhanyayo, njengeenkwenkwezi ezikhanyayo esibhakabhakeni sasebusuku, ilukwe ngobuchule ibe yinqwaba yeenkwenkwezi eziphuphayo. Oku akusiyo nje isidlo esibonakalayo, kodwa kukwayinto yomoya. Ubume befoam bulula kwaye bunemigangatho, ngokungathi bunokususa zonke iingxaki, bushiye uvuyo nothando olucocekileyo kuphela.
Inkwenkwezi, ukususela kumaxesha amandulo luphawu lothando, imele uthando oluzimisele ukwenza indima yokuxhasa, lukhusele ngokuthula, luqhakaza ngokuthula. Kwaye iqamza lizele ziinkwenkwezi, linika olu thando amathuba angakumbi kunye nobuchule. Ibhola nganye yeqamza ifana nenkwenkwezi ekhanyayo esibhakabhakeni sasebusuku, ixela ukusebeza kothando, ithambile kwaye iqinile. Ukuyinika umntu omthandayo kufana nokuthi, "Ndifuna ukuba ngumntu ongabalulekanga kodwa ohlala ekhanya ebomini bakho."
Ubuhle be-starbeam egcwele i-foam abukho kuphela kwinkangeleko yayo, kodwa nakwindlela eyonwabisa ngayo ngokwakho. Ungakhetha imibala eyahlukeneyo, iimilo kunye nobukhulu ngokwezinto ozikhethayo ukuze wenze i-beam ezele ziinkwenkwezi ezikhethekileyo. Nokuba yinto emangalisayo yoSuku lwezithandani okanye ulonwabo oluncinci lwemihla ngemihla, inokwenza olu thando lube lolwasemoyeni kwaye lube lolwakheke ngakumbi.
Umqadi weenkwenkwezi ogcwele igwebu ukwabonisa ukhathalelo loMhlaba ngezinto zawo ezikhethekileyo. Xa kuthelekiswa neentyatyambo zemveli, igwebu eligcwele iinkwenkwezi alihlali ixesha elide kuphela, kodwa likwanciphisa inkcitho yezixhobo kwaye livumela uthando ukuba luqhubeke ngenye indlela. Ukukhetha oko kukukhetha indlela yokuvuma enothando neyinobuhlobo nokusingqongileyo.
Ixesha leposi: Feb-06-2025